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I recall a conversation that I had with my now partner on one of our first dates. While discussing sexual boundaries, I swore against backdoor entry and was disgusted by the thought of it…

I was recently out of a seven-year, very emotionally abusive, controlling, and may I say boring relationship with a narcissistic sociopath. I left that relationship crippled with trust issues and insecurities that I’m still fighting to this day. However, that is a story for another day. To say our sex life was lifeless should not come as a surprise. I had not had crazy sexual experiences…


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It has been a rough year, and I don’t think we need to say it louder for the people in the back. Our lives have been taken away from us and stripped down to the essentials. While I can say that I have learned to slow down and appreciate the little things in life, I also miss the life opportunities we have lost. Simple pleasures seem out of reach, connecting responsibly with friends is a challenge, and with winter upon us, it’s easy to get sucked into the drone of life.

Going back to work post-quarantine was challenging. Being in…

Gem Hemingway

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